How to go about in Montreal

I just came from Montreal. I didn’t get to research much about the city before I left Manila, and I learned these things as I went about the city. I hope it would be useful to anyone who would be traveling to Montreal for the first time.

First of all, you have to know that there is the bus that can take you from airport to downtown. It’s express bus 747 that started last March only. You pay it with a one-day pass of CAN$7 which can still be used for innumerable travels during the day. The bus driver won’t accept cash, so buy it in the currency exchange stall in the airport. Just exchange the minimum number of US dollars that you have to buy the ticket. I found the canadian dollars quite expensive in the airport compared to the ones I bought in downtown some days later.

You need to find out the nearest Metro station and bus station to your place of residence there.  From there it would be relatively easy to move around. Well, I didn’t know that the final stop of bus 747 is Berri Uqam is just a few metro stops away. I took a taxi instead which cost a sum. So on the day of departure, i took the metro, went to Berri Uqam, which is convenient to those who will travel with luggages since the station has an elevator.

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Metro stops are very distinguishable, although you will miss it if you are not paying attention where you are going (which happened to me once). I only realized it when many people where getting down in that stop.

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Bus stops are a little more discreet. And the bus times don’t need French expertise. The columns shown are the days, the rows are the hours, and the data show the minutes the bus will pass in every hour. They are quite punctual, only one bus arrived half an hour later than schedule in all my 15+ trips.

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Unlike in Manila, you can enter the bus only in the front door, and place your pass in this direction. You can insert the exact amount of cash if you don’t have the pass. You have to get the ticket though as it will still be useful for the Metro for the next 2 hours even if you pay only for one “passatge” for CAN$2.75.

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Unlike in New York and London, there is no prohibition to get down in the door nearest the driver. The incoming passengers are quite patient though, waiting first for the last outgoing passenger.  Practise your French by greeting the driver Bonjour (hello or good day) or telling him Merci (thank you)

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And before you leave Montreal, try St Hub. My host Denyse ordered a very delicious chicken meal. The order “midi go” comes with free choice of a dessert :-)

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A brochure one weekend

CIV brochure - front & back
CIV brochure-inside

This is my first time to put up a big conference for which the experience of organizing four work-life balance forums had somehow given my some ideas. But creating the brochure seems to be entirely new. Before, I would leave all to the artist. Now since Mimi left for a seminar with half of the conference speakers still to be confirmed, she had half of the brochure done. After a month, when all conference details were more or less ironed out, I asked some other help to finalize the brochure  but everyone seems to be loaded with work. Good thing I remembered a student in the mini-MBA class last April. Unlike her sister Rheena (my  student in UA&P Management years ago) who shifted to culinary arts, Tara followed her passion in graphic designs. We only had a weekend to work on the brochure, so she relied on the initial ideas of Mimi, and delivered in two days. Wonderful! The other new experience besides recruiting an artist midway is to learn photoshop myself for minor and quick editing. But that is another story.

Do check out Tara’s website :-)

A Quick Trip to Cebu

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The last time I was in Cebu was in 2007 when I spoke about new trends on work-life balance in the annual PMAP conference at the Waterfront. There was about 200 HR people back then occupying a small function room. This time, it was a cozy group of 25 women, mostly managers from the local banks. The topic continues to be very relevant.

My student Alexis Tioseco

alexisIt was hard to write a post about Alexis back in September when his death was headline news. It is still hard now but already manageable.  I recently read a story by his friend who is finding it difficult to move on. And I thought I should someday write about him and my positive memories of him.

Alexis was one of my most memorable students, not because he got high grades. A transferee from another school in UA&P, Alexis  passed my MPO (Managing People in Organizations) without much difficulty. He submitted requirements on time. A no-problem student, basically.  He did some writing for me, when I was editor of the school magazine (SMN) not for the pay, nor for the interest, but I guess he saw I was desperate for writers and stories and he wanted to help me out.  And this is what makes me remember him always. He was always kind, courteous and respectful. He truly stood out among my many students (who could be up in the clouds, stressed, not noticing me).  Alexis would see me from afar, smile at me, approach me and have a brief chat with me. It’s not about me, it’s about a remarkable boy who I believe has received a good education from home, who has a natural respect and love for the people and the world around him. In the end, it’s really more about his parents and the family that brought him up to a be a good fellow.

Whenever I drive past his house in Times Street on my way home, I always say a prayer for the eternal repose of his soul. And I can imagine him with his sheepish smile saying “thank you, miss”.

Driving through Binondo

I had a meeting in Binondo today and came all the way from Laguna. I took the SLEX to Osmeña Highway (with a side trip to Sacred Heart Parish in Dao, Makati to attend the 6:45 AM Holy Mass). From Osmeña, I turned left to Quirino, then right to Taft. The Manila City Hall to my left was my signal to get to the leftmost lane in Padre Burgos as that would take me to Chinatown. After passing the bridge, I already saw the right wall of the Binondo Church.  I turned right in Ongpin and looked for Salazar (from the Chinese street signs). I turned left in Salazar and found a paid parking lot at my right. I walked to Masangkay Street and confirmed it is a one-way street to the direction of the Binondo Church.

How do I get out of Binondo back to Laguna? Good question which the female parking lot attendant answered for me. She said take CM Recto to Nagtahan Bridge. Well, that already sounds familiar. Thank you!

I took Benavidez Street which brought me to CM Recto.  I remembered I traveled this road in jeepneys a thousand times during my college days. “So I don’t have any right to be lost here!”

From CM Recto, I took Legarda street. When I reached the bottom of the  flyover to Sta. Mesa, I saw a sign to Nagtahan to my right. I took that side street (and was extra careful as there were children playing in the street).  From there I could already see the road that would take me to Nagtahan but I am only allowed to turn right (to AH Lacson? I am not sure about the name). So I made a U-turn and turned right away (this  street could be the extension of Legarda under the Nagtahan flyover).

Once in Nagtahan, I already knew that following the road would take me to Quirino, then left to Osmeña, then back to SLEX. I have lived in this vicinity for 4 years!

Finally, a billboard I like


I notice billboards a lot, even before I got back to driving. One brand I notice quite often is Penshoppe since I heard its founder speak in the campus years ago. The brand stuck to my mind ever since.

When I used to take the MRT, I would see their billboard above the Shell Station in the corner of EDSA and Buendia and would notice the seasons’ designs when changed. I just wondered what message do they really want to project. I wondered how much the founder/owner has a say in their marketing materials.

Recently, when I made the U-turn near Trinoma, I saw their billboard and I said, finally, they have put up one I like. Why do I like it? I wish my male students would dress like that, looking clean and intelligent. Although I wish the model were smiling, like this other “wish list” called “uplift” in their website. I have never seen this in a billboard. If I did, I would have taken the effort to get a photo of it, too, in a traffic stop.

The Grand Staircase

I used to live in Sta. Mesa Heights back in the early 90s. Visiting the house again today, I can’t help but admire its majestic staircase. I sure could have gone up and down those stairs a hundred times without thinking about it, but now it awes me to see it again as a visitor.

Advent Wreath

This is our Advent wreath, lit today on the first Sunday of Advent. It has three purple candles and a rose-colored one. The colors follow the liturgy. The purple candles are lit on the 1st, 2nd and 4th Sundays of Advent. On the 3rd Sunday which is also called the Gaudete Sunday signifying the joy that we are nearing Christmas, the rose candle is lit.

I know of some wreaths that have a fifth candle, a white one that is lit on Christmas eve. But in my house, there is no time to have a gettogether as a family around the Advent wreath due to the last-minute preparations for the Midnight Mass and the Noche Buena. Hence, you won’t see a white candle here.

Prayer for Priests

I had gone to Mass today in Sta. Isabel in Malolos. I heard this prayer which I could have heard the first time in the Immaculate Conception Cathedral in the capital.

I like this one better than the other prayers I heard in Manila. It’s very personal and at the same time, it’s so Filipino for paying the “utang na loob” or debt of honor for the many priests who have helped me principally by administering the Sacraments I have received.

(from the website of the Archdiocese of Manila
http://www.rcam.org/prayers/prayer_for_priests/tagalog.htm)

Hesus, Pari magpakailanman, ingatan mo ang lahat ng mga pari
sa kandungan ng Iyong kamahal-mahalang Puso upang walang makasaling sa kanila. Panatilihin Mong walang bahid ang kanilang banal na mga kamay
na sa araw-araw ay humahawak sa iyong kamahal-mahalang katawan.
Panatilihin Mong walang dungis ang kanilang mga labi
na sa araw-araw ay nalilinis ng Iyong kamahal-mahalang dugo.
Panatilihing malinis at di makamundo ang kanilang puso na may dakilang tatak ng pagkapari.

Panginoong Hesus, kami ay nagsusumamo para sa tapat at masigasig na pari
Para sa di tapat at nanlalamig na mga pari
Sa mga paring naglilingkod dito sa Pilipinas o sa ibang bansa,
Para sa iyong nalulungkot at napapabayaang mga pari
Para sa mga batang pari
Para sa mga nag-aagaw buhay na mga pari
Para sa mga kaluluwa ng iyong mga pari sa purgatoryo.

Itinatagubilin namin sa Iyo na iligtas ang lahat ng mga paring malalapit sa amin,
Ang mga paring nag gawad ng kapatawaran sa aming mga kasalanan,
Ang mga paring dinaluhan naming sa pagmimisa,
At nagbigay sa amin ng Iyong Katawan at Dugo sa Banal na Komunyon,
Ang mga paring nagturo sa amin,
Ang lahat ng mga paring pinagkakautangan naming ng loob sa anumang bagay.

O Hesus, panatalihin Mong malapit sila sa puso Mo
At padaluyin Mo sa kanila ang biyayang umaapaw ngayon at magpakailanman. Amen.

Flikr photo of Sta. Isabel Church by Robert Bernabe

And by the way, here is the schedule of Masses in Sta. Isabel:

CNN hero


I had never voted online for any advocacy, but when I received the email last October 8 from my friend Beth E. in New York about Efren Penaflorida, I immediately went to Efren’s Dynamic Teen Company website, read his story quickly and went to vote for him as CNN hero of the year. Of course, I questioned what my vote could do, but it felt good supporting another Filipino as he tries to improve this country in his own little way. Well, that way is not little anymore, it’s international -good, great, positive -news.

Congratulations to him and his parents.